Alot of guys find me intimidating...y? what DO guys find intimidating in a girl?

The only reason a guy would find you intimidating is if he lacked confidence in himself. He is afraid that he is not smart enough nor talented enough to keep your attention. You probably have a sense of self confidence and you know what you want and do not need anyone to help you to get it. You may have attained a higher level of education or a better paying job than some of the guys. There is something to be said for how you carry yourself...if you walk with presence - like a runway model. Perhaps, your truck is a status symbol and some of the guys are envious that you own such a truck and can pull it off driving it. If you speak with authority, people will listen...that can make some guys a little stand-offish. What ever you do - do not ever back down from who you are to make someone else more at ease. Pull them upward to your level. Be proud of who you are and what you have accomplished in your life. Eventually you will finds some guys that will be just fine with who you are.